In Spirit of the Holidays
Updated:10:41 AM ET November 26, 2006
By Anjori Sinha

This time of the year is known for its "holiday spirit" and there are two main reasons why I do not like this time of year. But before I indulge in why I dislike November - December of every year, I want to say that I have nothing against Christmas or any of the other religious holidays around this time period. And let me tell you one more thing, its not because I am not part of the religious groups that have festivities during this time.

1. I dislike what the holiday time has come to be. Everyone is engrossed in the gift giving and receiving. Businesses have made it a commercial tactic to suck out all the money from your pocket. "Give the give of love, with a $2000 diamond necklace!" screams the ads. The stores are fast to show you gift-able items that are worth your money. Wish lists are posted everywhere. Demands are made to those we love and expectations are manufactured of who will bring me the best gift. Is that what Christmas is about? [read more]

Some Things are Never Forgotten
Updated:06:02 PM ET January 25, 2006
By Anjori Sinha

At work, listening to my Mp3 player, I was busy trying to figure out an error I kept on getting. Then this song started playing.

I had to stop. You know the feeling when a song relates to you completely? That's what had happened. I wasn't sure why at first. But then again many things remind me of what was .. six months ago .. without reason. I was in a relationship and things didn't work out. I try not to talk/think about it but I unconsciously get reminded of memories together (good and bad) and there really is nothing I can do to make it go away. These memories are part of me, a good part of my past, but nonetheless its the past. Its hard to move on when you invest so much into something.

After listening to a few times and analyzing the lyrics .. it says a lot reasons why many relationships don't work out: taking each other for granted, lack of communication, not investing time and effort. I don't think I am trying to make a point. Its just a thought that occurred to me and I had to write it down. [read more]